Showing posts with label life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label life. Show all posts

Thursday, July 19, 2012

In my small spare time I have been...

Harvesting my first ever garlic.
Peeling apples for goodies.
Shelling beans.
Making my new favorite bread.
Enjoying giggling at my bad doggy first thing in the morning.

Saturday, June 23, 2012

How to make a budget on an unreliable income

If you have been reading this blog, then you know the reason I have become so hit-and-miss with my posts is that I am up to 3 jobs now.

I was hoping to quit one of them soon, however my husband has informed me that he does not have any jobs (at all) lined up after 6 weeks from now.

He is in construction, and in the good days had work lined up for 2 years. Now we are looking at weeks at a time. Scary. If only we had had the good sense to save when we were making that much money.... Oh well, that's water under the bridge now.....

So, 3 jobs for me it is.

We have never had what you call a steady income. He has always been in construction, so he gets paid after spending lots of money on materials (He works for himself) and the paychecks could be in 2 weeks, 4 weeks, 2 months, there is no telling most of the time.

I have worked for tips, and then on 100% commission, then both. Now I have a job where I work for tips, one for commission, and one on salary. I wanted the salary job so when I (hopefully) conceive, I can quit my for tips job. (A big baby belly and that tight outfit just wont cut it, lol...)
My salary is very low, very... Like well below the federal poverty line. I do get excellent health benefits, so once I have those taken out of my paycheck, and taxes the 40hr a week job makes me about 230$ a week. The cost of living in Alabama is pretty low, but not THAT low. I can supplement by bar tending at least one night a week. I can make from 100-200 ish (It always varies).

That puts me working about 50-some odd hours a week. Now for the commission job.

That is so unreliable, that I never factor it into my budget. Never, ever.

I can remember crying with a  client when her buyers backed out 2 days before closing. She had to sell, she could not afford the house anymore, and I needed that paycheck to buy food and keep the lights on.

Since that terrible time in my life (That whole year was that awful, gut wrenching, stressful feeling you get when you are broke, and have no idea when the next check will come), I have made vast improvements! That was in 2010. Now, (Drum roll please......)

I just paid off my last credit card!!!! Who-Hoo!!!


In fact, since I found Dave Ramsey's program, the Total Money Makeover in August of last year, I have paid off 


10,300.00$$$


Yes my friends. I am super excited. ten thousand, three hundred dollars, that I no longer owe. 


By the way, I spent NO money to learn the Total Money Makeover. There are classes you can sign up and pay for, but I got the library book. **Free**.  I recommend you try it that way first, especially if you are in as bad financial shape as I was at the time, 18.99 for a book? I couldn't afford that.... When you are better you can buy the book.  (By the way, I cheated further, I listened to the book instead of reading it. Dave makes a great audio book. I now listen to the radio show as much as possible to keep me motivated).


During this time I was still paying on my car payment and mortgage which have come down slightly.
Those are my only, and last ever (God keep me strong) debts.  


I still owe-41,089.03 on my house
                  7,000 on my car


Get to it, your saying. Tell us how to make a budget.......


Ok! How I did it.


Before I even started the  TMMO, I had a fight with my husband (We used to have lots of fights about money, like I am sure many of you have too).


He didn't understand, how he could work so hard every day, and we could still be broke. 


Well, he demanded to know where all of our money was going. In my anger, with tears of frustration and fear in my eyes,  I sat down and in a couple hours had a completely comprehensive outline of where our money was going. 


1. Look at your bank account

I sat down in front of my computer and pulled up my 2 credit card accounts, and my bank account.

I separated into categories, where our money had gone, over the last year.

Grocery shopping-this included trips to walmart, sams club, any grocery store for food or toiletries.
Bills-I found every bill payment made over the last year.
Gas- We drive a lot, only gas in this category.
Dining out- Used to be a weakness for us, not anymore!
Entertainment- Into this category went movies, alcohol, pretty much any junk we bought at a gas station.
Miscellaneous- This is where I put oil changes, clothes, makeup, stuff you need but don't need to have on a regular budget
Work expenses- We both have to spend money on licenses, materials, ect.


For example:

Bills- I know our power bill varied from about 90$ to 350$ depending on the weather- so I added all the last 12 bills and then divided them by 12 to get the average we paid every month.

We pay an average of 125$.

That is the number I use for my budget. Yes, it changes every month, but my budget has a little flex to it, because of the nature of irregular paychecks. If you are on irregular paychecks I suggest you do the same.

Groceries- I searched for every charge to a store where we bought groceries over the last 12 months. Added them, and divided by 12. That gave me the average of how much we spend on groceries.
I decided to cut that number down (Substantially) by couponing, preserving our own produce, and by saving our favorite and more expensive meals for special occasions. I also cook from scratch. (More time consuming for a while, but it quickly becomes second nature. And you will impress your friends ; )





Starting to see a trend here?

Lets do Gas.

I looked over the last 12 month for all our gas charges added them, then divided by 12.
Though, after a few months you really start to see a trend. I fill up twice a week, he fills up once (Usually).

If you do not use a card regularly you will need to pull out your receipts. If you have not saved receipts, sit down and try to remember the last 30 days. Start with the last week, and work your way back. You might have to look through your cabinets and check your phone and facebook, anything to remind you of what you have done, so you can remember how much you spent. Use that as an estimate. Then you can begin tracking your money regularly and update your budget as you get more accurate figures.

Now you have all your estimated expenses for every month.

2. Add your yearly expenses

I have bills that only come around once or twice a year. My trash service charges quarterly. These expenses need to go into your figures as well.

For the quarterly charges I added up the charges for the year, and divided by 12 to get how much it would add to my monthly expenses.

The yearly charges I add as a total amount at the bottom.

Sorry, no the best quality image, but it gives you an idea

3. Find your yearly amount

Now that you know your monthly and yearly expenses, add them together to find out how much you need every year to survive. 

I changed the amount we spend on groceries to 200$ a month, our entertainment budget is 120$ a month, eating out (for work lunches mostly) is 100$ a month. I used these numbers, not the scary stupid large numbers of our averages for our budget amounts.

Things like the power bill , car payment and gas don't change for the most part.  (You can car pool, reduce energy waste and buy cars with cash but that is another post)

Our yearly amount that we spend (If we stay on budget) is 

44,549.16$

We HAVE to make at least that amount to avoid going into more debt, or losing anything.

So that is our starting point. 

You have to remember that this number will decrease as you simplify your life, reduce frivolous spending and pay off debt (Never to charge again! Debt is folly, according to God and Grandma, as Dave says).

Add up how much you make each year. 

Because ours is un-reliable I used a low estimate of our reliable (hehe, yeah right) income. I recommend you do the same. If you make more that is just gravy.

Add up your total household income (Yours, your spouse, and child support payments, anything you regularly get money from)

and subtract the amount you spend yearly. 

For example:

Say we make 60,000$ each year
 60,000
-44,549.16
= 15,450.84$

That 15,450.84$ is money that we have been blowing on crap we don't need, or even remember buying half the time.

That is what we use to pay off our debt. 

How to pay off the debt

One bite at a time ;-)


This might sound silly, but many do not know how to accomplish this. 

I didn't. 

I thought, like many that you were supposed to pay off whatever has the highest interest rate first. 

Nah, there is a better way.

Line up your debts (ALL OF THEM) from smallest to largest.

Example: (this is what I was looking at when I did this)

Mortgage: 42,000
Car : 12,000
Credit Card#1: 6,500
Credit Card #2: 2,600
Money borrowed from parents: 700
School loan: 500

For many of you this seems like a small amount of debt, for some a huge amount. It is what I was dealing with. 
To pay them off: Continue making the minimum payment on all but the smallest debt. Mine was the 500$ I had left in school loan debt. 

ANY AND ALL extra money you have in the month over your budgeted expenses gets put on this. 
Even if it has the lowest interest rate. I was paying 50$ monthly on this debt. However, applying all my extra funds to it I actually was able to pay it off in less then a month.

Ahhh.... that felt good. Suddenly my list of debt was shorter. I may have only paid off 500$, but I felt as though I had accomplished something. 

And now I have what ever my regular extra money was + 50$. Apply that to paying off the next debt. 

My parents didn't charge me interest or a monthly payment, but I paid them off as soon as possible. It is not fun to owe someone money. 

Next thing I knew I had that paid off.  Now all my extra funds, above bills and living expenses are getting applied to the first credit card. 

It got paid off!!!
Next, we apply the 50$  from the student loan payment, the 100$ minimum payment from the smaller credit card debt, and all extra funds above living expenses to the next credit card. 

And it pays off even quicker!!!!

This is Dave Ramsey's "snowball effect" . I can't take credit for it.

Do you see what we are doing here? 

By paying off the small debts first, you get the satisfaction of ticking an item off the list(It keeps you motivated to stick to your budget). Now that it is time to start tackling the car payment, I have the 50$ from the student loan, 100$ from the cc#1, 130$ from cc#2 to add to the payment. That is an additional 280$ a month to pay off my car. That is going to pay off the car in half the time, even if I do not have anything extra in my monthly budget to pay it off with. 

When the car is done what will I do?
By another car of course. NOT!!!!!!

I am going to take the 280$ + my car payment (268) + any extra money monthly +my house payment and pay off the house.

That will give me at a minimum 1,248$ to use to pay off my house. So at the very least I am doubling my house payment and paying it off in half the time. ( I refuse to do the very least, I am on a roll!!!)

When I have no payments of any kind, my monthly expenses drop to less then 2,000$ a month including food, fun and gas. 

That will give me about 1500$ a month to save. 

Can you just imagine?

Paid for car, paid for Home, No fear of losing them, ever!  (Of course you keep insurance on them.)

Savings in the bank for emergencies! Once I have 6 months of living expenses saved ( That will only be 12,000$, and at the bare minimum I can have that done in 8 months if I ONLY pay what I am used to and no extra, then the rest can go into investing. 

Crazy. I grew up in a family that has always struggled, lived paycheck to paycheck and in debt. 

And now I am talking about have extra money for investing. 

That is the American dream.

I am tearing up writing this just imagining how great that will be.  After all the struggling and fear, pain and fights, to have that kind of security will be amazing. 

Amazing. 

I hope this has helped you work out your irregular income budget. Please do check out the book The Total Money Makeover. If you have any questions or comments I would love to hear them.




Friday, June 15, 2012

Why, hello there

I have been gone for a while. I have had you in my thoughts often.

Many, many things have come into my thoughts that I have wanted to share here that I just have not had the energy to post.

I realize now I have been slowly getting sick. Hopefully it'll pass this weekend. I plan on forcing myself to rest,

Ugg..... I like the idea, but then there are soooo many things around the house that I want to get done!!!

This week I discovered little ways to bring nature into my new office! Like....

This really freakin' cool tea!







I am sure many of you have seen this tea before, but to me it is brand new! You place the individual packet in a cup or small pitcher, pour hot water on and watch it bloom! This one was jasmine green tea, which happens to be one of my favorites too :)

I did find time to make some plum jam. I had to do it last weekend. Or else the birds and time would have ruined the beautiful crop of plums I had this year!! 

It still makes me sad that I will have to wait another year to get a batch of home grown plums...



The best way by far, to spend a long time in the kitchen ;)


I will go into more detail on how to make plum Jam later. 

Now I suppose I need to go rest. I have already been running around more then I should ;)

Happy Friday!








Thursday, May 31, 2012

My corn is crooked, how about yours?

I realized too late that our painstakingly planned garden is about 5 feet too far to the right. Which caused part of it to be in partial shade. Which caused part of it to lean.

Most prominently the corn. Oops. Well, that will have to wait until next fall to fix.


So as of tomorrow I will officially have 3 jobs.

Yep. I am tired all ready.

Granted, only one will be full time. But still, sheesh....

Hopefully though this will enable us to live like no one else later.

On to nicer things.

My plum tree is ripe for the picking, here comes plum jam!!! Yay!

I also will give a good amount to our friend who leads a similar simple lifestyle, and who is always generous with us .

I also picked the first produce from my garden.... And the winner is green beans! They are the first plant to produce!

Get it? Produce? Hardy har... See, I can still have fun, ;-)

I will talk to you again soon. Wish me luck for work tomorrow :-)

Monday, May 21, 2012

Outside

I wish sometimes that I could bottle the feeling I get being outside. It's impossible of course, but I still wish I could.

With the breeze turning the 80 degree weather into a pleasant feel. The wind chime casually clanging around, the overcast sky turning everything a vibrant and deeper rich green.

It's even staring to sprinkle now, and it's just making the air smell fresh and clear.

It's wonderful spending time out side.

And the cool thing is I now know how to blog from my phone so I can do it from outside :-)

Last week the HH informed me that he has about 10 weeks of solid work, them after that it is uncertain.

Uncertain.

Ugh I do not care for that word at all. I work however, the nature of my work leaves paychecks up in the air, and not coming down reliably.

I don't tell you this to cause you worry, though a trouble shared is a trouble halved, but to explain my absence after the declaration that I would blog at least 5 days a week. And then my almost immediate absence.

Oops.

I felt like I was detracting from my small family by spending time blogging instead of the many other activities I could have been performing.

And I was kind of pouting. Shameful, I know, but it's true.

But that's silly. I am working as much as I can, so is he. Other then that living our simple frugal lifestyle is the only other way to get through difficult times.

Writing here is free, fun, educational .

I see no reason to stop. Especially now that I am done pouting.

Friday, May 11, 2012

I like the smell of old wood and clean clothes

You know that smell an old house has? Its not a bad smell, it just lets you know that the wood supporting the walls around has been around for more then 50 years.

My house has that smell.



It is not present all the time.Usually I have chased it off with the smells of cooking or baking, and cleaning.

 Just every now and then I will get a whiff of it. Like this morning mixed with the smell of my clean laundry.  That had to be one of the homiest smells ever.



I like being at home. I know that if I let myself I would become a reclusive hermit. Its in my blood. I have an uncle that moved into the desert for that reason.

I do not plan on letting that happen, but still. I could do it. I do enjoy being around my family and close friends. But I am the happiest at home, with my husband.  If I could just work it out that everyone came over to my house (While still leaving at the perfect time) and I never had to go to the grocery store again, that would be perfect :)


Scary what you find under 40 year old vinyl siding. 

Haha.... I know that's not happening. And really I am sure I do not want it too. Even though it sounds great right now.

I have to make conscious choices to get myself out there. To go see people, and talk to them.  My willingness and ability to do this changes day to day.

HH tore off a piece of rotten wood. Birds took advantage of it to make a nest in my house. 


I always wished to be a charmer who can put all around at ease with a few smart words, and entertain people easily. Some days I am closer then others. And still some days I feel I can not pry my mouth open with a crowbar.

Good thing I married a charmer. I can stand back and let him go at a crowd and he has the whole place laughing in minutes.


Bet you don't see old vents like this very often.




Saturday, May 5, 2012

Today I


Today HH had to work his long day south of town. This is regular, about every other week or so during the grass cutting season. He gets up early and comes home late. Oh well...

I had my nieces and bro-in-laws birthdays to celebrate this evening.( Happy Birthday Lily and Josh!!!)

So this morning I made a sign. Using junk I had around the house.

Then I turned it into a key holder. I prefer things that actually serve a purpose.


I used a straw and a paper plate to mix the acrylic paints. And some rags as paint brushes. Making do with what I have and It works pretty well :)



I thought it looked pretty all mixed up





The bird is a bit girly-er then I normally am, but hey, its spring and I am feeling a bit girly :) 

I can be girly sometimes.


Speaking of girly, I also made earrings. These are the only cool shells we found that were not currently occupied by the creature that created them our whole vacation.

It was a matching set and I could not resist. Let me tell you, it was a PAIN getting a hole in them. They are small and delicate. I finally got a hole in both shells, and broke one putting the chain in it. Luckily I have modge podge glue, and was able to put it back together :)


Aside from the 2$ I spent on a pack of 40 earring posts, these were free!

The stripes are pretty cool, right?

Happy weekends to you.

Monday, April 23, 2012

Dear Saturday,

This Saturday finds me striped with sunburn and very happy.

Yesterday was our first full day on vacation.

So far we have been out to eat once, worked out twice (first time I managed to make myself workout on vacation. Yep.... pretty impressed with myself right now) and been to the store three or more times!

I love the full kitchen. We have bought enough food to feed us well this entire vacation for the amount we would spend going out to eat once. We will supplement it with some fresh seafood for HH. That is about all the money we have to spend!

This is about as thrifty of a vacation as we can manage (not that taking a vacation is thrifty to begin with, but sometimes a girls has to have some good old fashioned singing on the beach kind of fun:)

We had a sunset dinner on the balcony last night too.


We went to sextons fish market and bought a hunk of tuna and some shrimp for HH.  For 20 bucks he was able to eat a ridiculous amount of incredibly fresh fish.  

See?

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I have been a little lazy about getting this post up, it is now a few days later... Hehe...

I wanted some more pictures before I posted, however it took me two days and two close dolphin sightings(Sooooooo cool) before I finally remembered to bring my camera out.

The first day we saw the dolphins they were about 30 feet off the shore line. As soon as I realized they were dolphins I ran and jumped in the water and tried to swim with them. I didn't make it in soon enough, or they just didn't want to swim with me. Either way when I started looking around I realized everyone else chose to get out of the water when they saw the dolphins, and that I was the only one to get in. Those people are crazy.... ; ) I can not imagine missing an opportunity to swim with wild dolphins.

Hehe...

I will have my camera on me today and tomorrow which will be our last days. Hopefully there will be a repeat performance!

We have done very well on our budget vacation. We hit happy hour when we wanted to go out, and have cooked in the rest of the time.

We went to a movie, but hit the matinee and smuggled in candy in my purse (shssh.... don't tell)

We did walk down the beach yesterday to buy onion rings at a beach restaurant, the back porch. The only place I know of that welcomes swimsuits and bare feet. Its tradition for us.


I hope you all are having as good of a week as I am!

I'll see you again when I am back in Alabama.





Tuesday, April 17, 2012

Rainy days

Look at my beautiful fence! HH is diligently putting it up, even in the rain:)

It has been  a while since I have posted.

I have been cleaning for out of town visitors, cooking for a baby shower. (kinda fun)

Interviewing and searching for new jobs, considering my options for more schooling.(Miserable, though HH seems to think I should be excited about this for some reason)

Making honeysuckle infused oil (awesome fun)

and preparing for a vacation.

We are leaving for the beach on Thursday (yay!!!)

We are falling off the budget wagon to take a vacation, but HH pouts (okay, okay, so do I) if we do not get to take one. So we are doing it on the cheap. We got a great deal on a condo, and it has a kitchen in it! It is where we stayed last year. We had a wonderful experience so I hope we do this year as well.

The kitchen makes a big difference in how much we spend. We will probably go out to eat once. Other then that we will pick up some seafood to cook at the condo. We'll grill out one night as well.



The view from the condo last year. We are higher up this year (And paid less!!! Yippee!)


Next time I talk to you this will be my view :)

Have a wonderful Tuesday!